I felt like if I knew what I wanted to do with my life everything would be better. I’d get married, have a nice house, have kids, and live happily ever after.
Once I discovered what IT was, that’s what I’d be doing for the rest of my life. I’ve learned that life doesn’t have to be about finding that one thing you’re meant to do and then do it forever. To me life is about exploring everything out there.
You’re not going to have 0,000 in a year if your bank account only has 0 now. Anything you truly want in your life isn’t going to come easy. What if you don’t know how to do what you want to do? Whatever it is you want to achieve has very likely been done by someone else. I bet anything you want to learn has been written about. (Reorganizing your desk to avoid doing what you need to do doesn’t count as having a lot going on either.)If you know you should be doing it, but you’re not then that’s a different story. Your goals may not be as big as creating a theme park or building a device that changes our lives and that’s okay. Not just a goal that seems interesting, but one that keeps you up at night. If you’d love to play them, you’d be doing it.”Charles practiced every day for three or four hours in addition to performing. Liking the idea and being committed are two completely different things. You can put it away, continue with what you were previously doing, and forget you read this. What’s important is what happens from this moment on.Our minds have some vivid imaginations and does a great job of creating wacky scenarios. I recently discovered that my husband of 17 years has been seeing three (that I know of) OW for lunchtime drinks, chats and a bit of flirting. Fw-300 #ya-qn-sort h2 /* Breadcrumb */ #ya-question-breadcrumb #ya-question-breadcrumb i #ya-question-breadcrumb a #bc .ya-q-full-text, .ya-q-text #ya-question-detail h1 html[lang="zh-Hant-TW"] .ya-q-full-text, html[lang="zh-Hant-TW"] .ya-q-text, html[lang="zh-Hant-HK"] .ya-q-full-text, html[lang="zh-Hant-HK"] .ya-q-text html[lang="zh-Hant-TW"] #ya-question-detail h1, html[lang="zh-Hant-HK"] #ya-question-detail h1 #Stencil . Bdend-1g /* Trending Now */ /* Center Rail */ #ya-center-rail .profile-banner-default .ya-ba-title #Stencil . Bgc-lgr #ya-best-answer, #ya-qpage-msg, #ya-question-detail, li.ya-other-answer .tupwrap .comment-text /* Right Rail */ #Stencil . Bxsh-003-prpl #yai-q-answer, #ya-trending, #ya-related-questions h2. Fw-300 .qstn-title #ya-trending-questions-show-more, #ya-related-questions-show-more #ya-trending-questions-more, #ya-related-questions-more /* DMROS */ .Then your belief is that you’re unlucky so that’s what you’ll keep brining into your life. I know you told me you’re busy and you don’t have much time to do anything. Take a look at what unproductive activities you do. Fear stops so many from doing what they should be doing. You can start to change that immediately by believing the world is doing great things for you and you can’t wait to see what they are. Anything you do that’s new is going to have some level of fear because you don’t know how it will turn out. Some people do find that one thing and dedicate their whole lives because they love it. It’s trying different things and putting more attention on certain ones.There’s so much out there that it’d be a shame to not have more than one interest. No, but I’ve found something that I enjoy at this moment.If you want to get into shape, they can’t do your pushups for you. If they move on and find success, no one’s going to remember the failures. Luck is an awesome thing, but if you’re waiting for luck to come you’re going to be waiting a long time. If you want to be an expert on butterflies that’s great. If you told me your goals, I’d treat you like a little child who thinks anything is possible. The person that is going to be responsible for everything you want to create in your life is that face you see in the mirror every single day. It’s the one who had big hopes and dreams, but got lost after years of self-doubt and trying to making others happy. Don’t begin with the attitude that you will fail because you’re just setting yourself up to fail. By that time, you’ll feel lucky to just wake up every morning. Everyone has a place in this world and it needs some experts in butterflies. I just don’t want you to think your goals are silly. Whatever your goal is, I know if you achieved it, it would be like winning the lottery. I will say it sounds great and you can do it because that’s what I believe.