My e-leaflet Finding The Right Partner For You will help too. I found I enjoyed being single again but then she started calling me, pleading for another chance. Then she got angry with me, as she hates all my friends. Frankly, it’s not a good sign that she hates all your mates.But first, have a sexual health check to ensure you are OK. She says that she wants to be single so tell her: “Enjoy feeling free!He’s 24 and gets stroppy and loud when he’s had too much booze.My daughter is 26 and has asked me to have a word with him and ask him not to drink to excess. You can also private message on the Dear Deidre Official Facebook page. Every problem gets a personal reply, usually within 24 hours weekdays.I thought if I said no they’d move on to someone else. We had sex in my bed and it felt really nice but I woke up the next morning to find that he’d gone without even leaving a note. You need to rebuild self-esteem and a bit more self-love before dating again.I enjoy having sex as it makes me feel needed for a while. The men you meet now will just see you as you see yourself – someone with nothing to offer but sex on a plate.
I’ve started to ask myself whether she just doesn’t fancy me these days or is it to do with that silly affair? She’s worried her brother will spoil it by drinking too much.The chances are that my youngest will get really drunk at the wedding.Only he can decide when enough is enough but plain speaking can help. MY boyfriend always looks really smart for work and smells great too. But on his days off, he doesn’t bother with personal hygiene. We both work for a recruitment company and there’s quite a strict dress code. We’ve been together for three months now and he’s a really great guy. I really don’t want to hurt his feelings by telling him he still needs to take a shower and brush his teeth when he’s not at work. For my e-leaflet on Reviving Sex Drive, email [email protected] daughter is getting married in June and wants to enjoy her big day.Follow me on Twitter @deardeidre or write to Deidre Sanders, The Sun, London SE1 9GF (please enclose SAE) I FOUND a new man on a dating website. It felt good at the time but later on, I felt rubbish about the whole thing and hated myself.I’m 34 with two young kids from a previous relationship.Say he’s great but you want him to make the same effort for you as he does for his work – after all, you get even closer to him than his boss or clients. I know it isn’t everything in a relationship but sex is important to me. I’ve been with my girlfriend for ten years but two years ago, she had an affair. We broke up for a month but I said I forgave her and we moved on.