Most of all I like freedom to go,and come as I please. I have different family member too spend the weekend sometimes with me.when I listen too other people relationship, It only reminds me, of why I am alone by choice." " People don't realise .(I did notice one, but that was merely because the poster had included it in the main body of his message.)Its difficult to know if one should write to someone, or if doing so is no longer appropriate or applicable, i.e., for various reasons, including the possibility they were of such an advanced age at time of writing, they may well have passed away by now. At first I saw a complex that I thought I would like better than where I am now.A few times more after visiting that complex, I decided that I didn't like it.I am nearer to 70 than 60 but have a youthfull outlook ..... 2018 " " I have lived with others over the last 16 years snce I have left home. Single 36 year old female and no children I value my independence.
I like doing just for myself, I don't feel used that way.I will sell my place but where will I move to with prices so high for a new place. please i need a kind hearted woman to fill in the lonely space in my life. please contact through my email" " I will be 60 years old on New Years Day. Both are older than me and they live 3000 miles from me. When I come home from work, I don't feel like talking to anyone. I live at a condo complex that I'm not crazy about. I feel very lonely; and I want to sell and move out. The rents are high, but so is owning with repairs and medical expenses that I have and more in the future.Oh boy , I am really needing help....." " I'm 57 years and i'm alone now. I would like to live in a community where I would have things in common with others.The great plus to living alone is not having to go through the mess and discomfort of someone dying in your life when you are still going fairly strong.I have found out that the man I used to be married to is dying of cancer and that would be very unpleasant. I suppose I always guessed that it would turn out like this from the way he used to drink.it is as the realities of your children and grandchildren become more necessary than your existence, your achievements are blindingly un-resurrected, and the obvious that your Lifetime Choices did not MEAN anything to the World's History or to the neighborhood you taught in. The Blacks in my condo building and neighborhood feel I have something that they want......a luxury condo ....that means money.....Once we ACCEPT the fact that we are on the RECEIVING END of Life, not the Choosing End, then we can accept being Alone and Appreciating what Little comes our way. I have no real BF at the moment and do not bring family and friends to my apt because they don't like my neighborhood ..is dangerous and not safe...of shootings and killings and drugs ..my family dislikes the ungrooms houses and so forth in the area and the aggressiveness of the people...I am old school type and only interested in mutual commitment" " i am 71 years old been a widower for 11 years.i have a son who just got engaged and that's mean i will be is no fun be alone i don't care what anybody says i was married for 25 years and i miss being in love that warm feeling you get when you come home and there is someone waiting for holidays come around is the worst.i would love to have a soulmate again." " What a great idea, a site that links up folks from all over the world. But there seems to be quite a few that I've met that I don't like very much.I wonder why there are no calendar dates attached to each persons post? Thank you for listening " I had previously mentioned that I live and own in a condo complex and have not been very happy living at it. I had considered selling my place because of the lack of social possibilities at where I am.If You want to be Yourself, then you will choose "Single" and be Honest to your "happiness" response. But it would be so very nice to have a friend/pal as I love travelling to see places/countries which I definitely cannot do all alone.If you choose a "mate" then you will always be Alone, compensating for that Mate's desires; and dependent on mutual commitment. I have striven to be alone, and been forced to be alone- in order to have my Choices. Still interested to have that special friend/pal as life could be more interesting and lively with a right partner" " I live alone and have a major problem now.